Parenting has undergone massive shifts overtime. A slap every now and then, which was a common parenting tool in 90s, is no longer acceptable. We are the cool ones who like to hang out with kids, we interact with them and rather than enforcing our aspirations, we help them achieve their passions and goals.
Well serious stuff aside, ever wonder what your parenting style says about you? Are you really as fun as you think you are or beneath the cool mask, there is the old Hitler style parent directing the terms? Take this fun quiz to find out if you’re a Perfect 10, Hitler, Chaos Controller or the Coolest Buddy!
Questions (Choose one answer per question):
Your kid spills juice on the couch. You…
- Calmly hand them a towel and help clean it up
- Lecture them about being careful next time and make then clean
- Yell, then clean it up yourself
- Laugh and say, “Oops! Let’s turn this into a science experiment!”
Bathing rules in your house…
- A bath every day with a bit of time flexibility
- Fixed bath timings every morning & night – no exceptions
- Chase after your kid every day and try to ensure hygiene
- Plan fun bathtub games and chill with bubble makers
When it comes to bedtime…
- You have a consistent routine with calming music
- Lights out at exactly 8:00, no exceptions
- Every night is a surprise
- You let them fall asleep in your bed while watching cartoons
Your child is bored…how do you react?
- You dig out a book from the bookcase and read together
- Remind that the room has been messy forever and ought to be cleaned
- Cuddle together and start explaining the series you’ve binge watching
- Screen time!
You pack lunch with…
- Organic veggies, fruits, and whole grains
- A perfectly balanced meal with a motivational note
- Whatever is in the fridge and fits in a bag
- Nuggets, cookies, and a juice box – they earned it!
Your child wants to dye their hair blue. You say…
- “Let’s talk about why you want to and find a safe way.”
- “Absolutely not until you’re 18.”
- “Sure, just don’t stain the tub again.”
- “Only if I can dye mine too!”
Your child drew on the wall. You …
- Google how to remove stains and as a lesson engage you child in the clean up
- Immediate yelling followed by a strong glare and warning
- Click a pic and post it on insta
- Pick up a crayon and work on the mural together
Your dream family vacation is…
- A quiet cabin in the woods with no screens
- A historical tour with educational stops
- A last-minute road trip with no plans
- Disneyland, every year – no exceptions
You child remembered about the art project at 1 am on a school night. You…
- Lecture, order supplies and sit down with your kid to complete the project
- A teachable moment – you send your kid to the school, without the project
- You work on the project all by yourself
- No school tomorrow!
Your biggest parenting weapon is…
- Constant interactions with your kid
- The deadly stare and that deep Mom/Dad voice
- Avoidance to the extent possible
- Bribery – Snacks, toys, vacations…whatever works!
Results:
- Mostly A’s: The Perfect 10
Although it is not really possible to be the perfect parent, but you are definitely close. You are a Zen master who is calm, thoughtful, and emotionally attuned – you’re all about mindful parenting and balance. - Mostly B’s: The Hitler
You love your rules and not just your spouse, even the kids aren’t allowed to break any. Structure, consistency, and discipline are your parenting cornerstones. You run a tight ship! - Mostly C’s: The Chaos Controller
Putting out the fire is an art and you are an expert. Life is wild, and you’re riding the wave! You may not have a plan, but you’re doing your best. - Mostly D’s: The Coolest Buddy
Everybody preaches about being friends with the child, you’ve done it! You’re fun, spontaneous, and always in your kid’s corner – sometimes a little too much maybe!