A guide to the CBSE career guidance portal

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Central Board of Secondary Education (CBSE), as part of the career guidance initiative, has launched a career guidance portal – www.cbsecareerguidance.in. The platform presents valuable career related information to students and is quite simple to use. The portal provides comprehensive information and is free.  Presented in this article is a simple walkthrough that’ll help navigate and make the most of this free career planning resource.

Steps to Register

There are two ways to start – you can register or login with an existing gmail account at cbsecareerguidance.in. We took the registration route and created a new account. Basic information was sought at this stage, including the name of the state, school and subjects opted in class 11th/12th. A verification email is sent and post confirmation, registration is complete.

Inside the Portal

CBSE career guidance portal’s welcome dashboard offers you 3 exploration options to select from viz., Career, College & Exams. Additionally, you can select your choices for the following couple of questions:

What do you like doing apart from studying your subjects?

Which subjects do you enjoy studying?

Once you answer these questions, career options in the selected category are provided. Let’s understand with an illustration. If we list biology as the preferred subject, the first career option is ‘Critical & Trauma Care Specialist’. Clicking on the option takes you to the detailed page, where the following subheads are covered:

Introduction to the field

What do you do as a career?

Future growth / how much you can make in this career

Career pathways (how to become a professional)

Certifications

Skills & aptitude

Placement companies

Links to external blogs & journal

Real life professionals

Technologies

Job designations

Tools at Work

Additional resources & more…

Alternatively, you can also go back to the dashboard and select career, college or exam icon to gather information about a specific query.

For instance, by clicking on the college option, one can search for various colleges providing a specific course, along with details like location, fee & rankings.

Pros & Cons

The website is definitely a brave and encouraging effort from India’s leading education board. Given the number of students who enrol with CBSE every year, this is certainly a much useful step in the right direction. Meaningful data, in quite a simple manner, has been summarised under one umbrella, which certainly makes it an easy to search portal. Especially given the plethora of resources, as a learner, it is useful to access a website that is managed by an institute of repute and is available free of cost.

A drawback however, of the website at this stage seems to be the lack of promised information under the assorted subheads. There are information gaps that still need to be filled. For instance, continuing with the selected career option, if we select the career pathway and choose the Post Graduation Degree link, the information doesn’t suffice. Just a broad category is mentioned, which doesn’t really help with the steps thereof and therefore, research outside the website is suggested. Likewise, details regarding all colleges and courses aren’t fully updated. Nonetheless, there are enough external links and videos to complement the research. In a nutshell, the CBSE career guidance portal is an evolving platform and can certainly serve as a decent starting point.

Tackling the English Language

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A word after a word after a word is power – Margaret Atwood

Language is a formidable foe and the certain way to win this battle is with the weapons of persistence and consistency.  Be it English or any other language, mastering the components requires effort and dedication on the part of the learner. A mentor can pave the way, but the eventual result relies heavily upon the student’s willingness to learn.

Tackling the English Language

Vocabulary, grammar, sentence structure and pronunciation are the key elements of a language. The pursuit in this direction entails working on these aspects. A structured approach, backed by diligence and consistent effort, is the key to enhanced English communication skills. In addition, you continually need to push yourself or find your motivation. Mastering the English language is a daunting task and often on this treacherous journey, there’ll be an inclination to give up. Finding the zeal in you will help improve your English communication skills.

Immerse yourself in the language

In other words, embrace the English language as if it were your mother tongue! If you pick a magazine, pick one in English. If you switch on the news, opt for the English channels. Find your shows in English or at least keep the English captions on. Even while playing games on your phone, switch to the English language. If you have to speak to a customer care executive, go for the English option.

Experienced mentors shall pave the way

In order to improve your English communication skills, you need someone to lead the way. While there is enough available online to help you improve spoken English, following a proper approach ensures success and this is where trainers @ Conversation Club can help. With CC to assist with the task of improving communication skills, the learning path becomes easier and shorter. Here’s how we can help students across all age groups and backgrounds:

  • Experienced mentors to guide – English language experts help you strategize the way forward. By assessing the student’s current competence levels and by identifying the key problem areas, trainers at Conversation Club help devise the suitable English language learning plan. The plan is customized as per the learner’s requirements.
  • Professional guides to help you stay on track – With the plan in place, all it takes to master the English language is determination to go on and this is where we help you achieve the endeavour. Through regular guidance, our skilled trainers reinforce the idea of learning, thereby enhancing spoken and written English skills.
  • A constant friend who corrects and helps improve – We offer you the practical learning experience and ensure correction at each and every stage. This hand holding makes the learning program a rewarding and interesting journey for English language enthusiasts.

Be it in social circles or professional spaces, the English language these days is a mandate. From school interviews to college applications to job interviews to seemingly simple society luncheons and dinners, a command of the English language paves the way. Conversation Club is your partner and we can together achieve the objective of enhanced English communication skills.

If you want to say something, you must find the words!

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If you have an opinion and would like a platform to share, we welcome you to CC.

Creative writing is an art, that greatly helps improve the communication skills. At CC we encourage the use of English language in all formats and thus are delighted to extend this writing platform to all.

You are welcome to submit articles, which we shall publish on our blog, with your name & email id. This is an exercise, which will help improve the communication skills and thus is an opportunity for all learners. The option is open for all age groups and backgrounds. We shall promote your work on our social media pages and you too can promote the published work by sharing the links amongst your circles. Share your opinion & encourage your children to pen their thoughts!

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All articles will be reviewed by our content team and once approved, will be published along with a media presentation (audio/video). The articles should be a minimum 300 words.

*We reserve the right to modify / reject any entry.

**This is not a paid opportunity & we do not provide any kind of certification.

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Are you a super parent?

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Yet another victim of the ‘parenting guilt trap’?

In a typical middle-class family, if both parents work, they are able to financially provide for their children. They can manage the expensive schools, fancy events, elaborate holidays and thus scrape just about enough to keep up with the demands of the high-profile socialite classes. However, if both parents work, who is supposed to raise kids? Working moms aren’t very popular amongst the righteous parenting groups. They fail to attend to all PTMs and struggle during the regular mom networking get-togethers.

Stated is just an illustration of the diabolical confusion parenting these days brings along. Rules seem to be ever changing. We grew up in an environment where it was rather normal for parents to scold or even slap the kids around. Now however, even raising the voice beyond a certain optimal level is frowned upon. We can no longer expect our children to help; on the contrary, they ought to be given space and ought to be provided with complete services and devotion. After all, they have sooo much to manage. It is inhumane to expect them to pitch in and help keep up the place.

While there is conspicuous chatter about children’s overwhelming lives and competition and emotional well-being … what about the parents’ mental health???

The invisible nobodies

Why isn’t anybody asking about how we are coping? Grandparents love their grand children and shower them with gifts and lovely anecdotes. However, when it comes to their own kids, i.e. the current parents, the older generation is super critical and nitpicky. We weren’t good enough as kids and now we are failing as parents. Neither of the two generations cares enough to at least acknowledge the woes of parents today. We are the ones trying to understand our kid’s emotional and social needs, while at the same time valiantly fighting the scars of our childhood. We are learning the changing rules, forced to adapt at an unbelievable pace and yet when it comes to appreciating the work, even a thank you note seems way too much.

Damning competition

As if the world isn’t difficult enough already, we stupid parents have further complicated things by getting into an unsaid competition. We are trying to be super parents and, in this race, ridiculously fighting for the top spot. That might entail horrifying shopping bills on stuff like Legos or the latest sneakers or following a super chill / super cool parenting strategy of allowing it all.  What we’ve forgotten is that there cannot possibly be a “Super Parent”. This ideal person simply does not exist and thus wouldn’t it make more sense to exit this addictive spiral of self-loathing and head towards a more accepting life of a parent who is trying to learn with every passing day?

In an encapsulation, kindly consider this monologue a humble appeal to parents all around. Let’s just normalize the whole concept of raising kids and while we might not have the power to control any outside forces that impact, let’s be reasonable and stop competing with each other. In other words, instead of judging all parents around you and showering the lot with critical raised eyebrows, try and attempt a more understanding smile, thus leading to a breathable environment for parents all around.

Let tears flow … the power of CRYING!

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We are all meant to be strong; crying is a sign of weakness.  The world we live in is ruthless and any sign of weakness will be taken as a failure and used against us.

This thought terrifies, especially when it comes to our kids. We don’t want our children to be fragile. As a parent, we want our kids to be equipped to face the harsh tones of life and thus are often tempted to advocate the idea of ‘no tears’. Boys don’t cry and these days, cause girls are as strong as boys, they shouldn’t cry either. While the idea of gender equality is a welcoming thought, the notion of banning tears is a problem that ought to be dealt with.

Let your mind & heart detox … Crying HEALS!!

Crying is a natural phenomenon, which a human is expected to perform. In fact, there is something medically wrong with those, who cannot shed tears. This exercise of shedding tears is imperative for both body & mind and is not necessarily in response to a negative emotion. Often, we cry because we are happy; tears can reflect ecstasy, achievement and fulfillment. The stated however doesn’t undermine the importance of tears as an expression of grief. Often these tears, help cope with the toughest conundrums and face the hardships life puts us through.

Emotional & Physical Benefits of Crying

  • Crying releases toxins – Crying helps release a lot of harmful toxins from the eyes and thus enables natural cleansing. Tears lubricate the eyes and help relieve stress.
  • Helps fight pain and initiate self-soothing – By allowing us to release our emotions, we ease pain. Both psychologically and physically, when we cry, we allow ourselves to start the process of healing. This emotional outburst improves our brain temperatures and helps us cool down and restart.
  • Crying is a vent – It is not always possible to express in words. Tears act as a powerful mode of communication in such cases. It is often said that tears are words, expressed by the heart. Especially in the case of children, when they are not able to process their emotions, crying helps balance it out.  

Create a Safe Space

As a parent or a partner, create an embracing environment. Those whom you love should be able to come to you and express themselves in any manner possible. Rather than creating rules of idealistic behaviour, offer a comforting safe space in your embrace, where they can express, even through tears. Help by initiating the process of healing – promote healthy relationships through open verbal & non verbal communication.  

Crying is better than being numb. Only a heart that experiences pain, sheds tears. If we force our kids to completely shut off this strong expression of emotions, we are training them to be robots. Can you imagine the life of a person who does not feel or even worse, is not allowed to express? Tears are a powerful communication tool … embrace the strength of crying.

Scorecard versus Real Life – The Marks Mystery

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Newspapers right now are flooded with pictures of students who have managed to score more than 90% in their class X or XII board exams. All schools and coaching institutes are advertising their scholars. After all, these educational setups are the ones preparing the next generation of leaders, professionals and entrepreneurs for us. God forbid if somebody scored less than 80%, the world might just end now. Wonder what Rancho from 3 Idiots has to say about this.

Do you remember your friends from school who aced in grade 10th?

Go down memory lane; even dig out a school photo if you have one. Now open Facebook or Instagram and see how many of those faces you recognize in your vast list of long-lost friends. Though their faces might be completely unrecognizable now, I am sure you remember a few.

The weirdly tall fellow who was always trying to hide in his corner desk cramped towards the wall. That pretty petite girl who was undoubtedly the class princess and object of envy. And of course, the teacher’s pets, who always thrived to secure top positions and never failed to answer any question. While you were still figuring out the question, they promptly raised their hands to answer. Exams were a battle for them and winning was the only option. Girls with long braids and boys with ruptured teenage voices, clinging on to their books, cramming it all up to ensure perfect scores.

Where are these academic geniuses in life now???

The evident ‘Hypocrisy’!!!

We talk about street smart and discuss the value of life skills. We act like the most open minded, intellectually qualified modern parents, who totally understand the relevance of true – deeper learning. As and when it suits us, we even blame the current education system and bring out all that needs to be changed or challenged. We claim to fully acknowledge the pertinence of practical growth and exposure in life.

But, while we love advertising our revolutionary beliefs, the true reflection of intelligence is still the school board exam SCORECARD.

We are the famous aunties and neighbours who pester kids about their marks in the board examinations. In fact, for a lot of parents, marksheets are currently their profile pics. We talk about an all-inclusive education system and yet when it comes to selecting a school, we go by the adverts promoting an age-old rotten rote learning system. Once the scores are released, we track down all the kids and find out their performance in board examinations. After all, marks in class 10th and 12th are the only true reflection of a child’s intelligence. If you do not remember the year Hitler attacked Jews or when the French Revolution reached villages, you are definitely doomed for life. Don’t you agree??

Truly skip the rat race!

If possible, for your child’s sake, make an honest effort and opt out of this silly competition. Life is a lesson we are still learning. There is a long way to go and how we prepare our kids today, will decide the outcome. Practical education ought to be the focus. Let them experience life beyond school books and tuition. Let them explore, make mistakes and gather pieces to start afresh! These marks will be forgotten, but the scars of this undue pressure won’t fade easily. Each child is special and full of possibilities. Ensure that there’s enough scope to experiment and weave a life worth living!

What Kind of a Parent Are You?

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Parenting has undergone massive shifts overtime. A slap every now and then, which was a common parenting tool in 90s, is no longer acceptable. We are the cool ones who like to hang out with kids, we interact with them and rather than enforcing our aspirations, we help them achieve their passions and goals.

Well serious stuff aside, ever wonder what your parenting style says about you? Are you really as fun as you think you are or beneath the cool mask, there is the old Hitler style parent directing the terms? Take this fun quiz to find out if you’re a Perfect 10, Hitler, Chaos Controller or the Coolest Buddy!

Questions (Choose one answer per question):

Your kid spills juice on the couch. You…

  1. Calmly hand them a towel and help clean it up
  2. Lecture them about being careful next time and make then clean
  3. Yell, then clean it up yourself
  4. Laugh and say, “Oops! Let’s turn this into a science experiment!”

Bathing rules in your house…

  1. A bath every day with a bit of time flexibility
  2. Fixed bath timings every morning & night – no exceptions
  3. Chase after your kid every day and try to ensure hygiene
  4. Plan fun bathtub games and chill with bubble makers

When it comes to bedtime…

  1. You have a consistent routine with calming music
  2. Lights out at exactly 8:00, no exceptions
  3. Every night is a surprise
  4. You let them fall asleep in your bed while watching cartoons

Your child is bored…how do you react?

  1. You dig out a book from the bookcase and read together
  2. Remind that the room has been messy forever and ought to be cleaned
  3. Cuddle together and start explaining the series you’ve binge watching
  4. Screen time!

You pack lunch with…

  1. Organic veggies, fruits, and whole grains
  2. A perfectly balanced meal with a motivational note
  3. Whatever is in the fridge and fits in a bag
  4. Nuggets, cookies, and a juice box – they earned it!

Your child wants to dye their hair blue. You say…

  1. “Let’s talk about why you want to and find a safe way.”
  2. “Absolutely not until you’re 18.”
  3. “Sure, just don’t stain the tub again.”
  4. “Only if I can dye mine too!”

Your child drew on the wall. You …

  1. Google how to remove stains and as a lesson engage you child in the clean up
  2. Immediate yelling followed by a strong glare and warning
  3. Click a pic and post it on insta
  4. Pick up a crayon and work on the mural together

    Your dream family vacation is…

    1. A quiet cabin in the woods with no screens
    2. A historical tour with educational stops
    3. A last-minute road trip with no plans
    4. Disneyland, every year – no exceptions

    You child remembered about the art project at 1 am on a school night. You…

    1. Lecture, order supplies and sit down with your kid to complete the project
    2. A teachable moment – you send your kid to the school, without the project
    3. You work on the project all by yourself
    4. No school tomorrow!

    Your biggest parenting weapon is…

    1. Constant interactions with your kid
    2. The deadly stare and that deep Mom/Dad voice
    3. Avoidance to the extent possible
    4. Bribery – Snacks, toys, vacations…whatever works!

    Results:

    • Mostly A’s: The Perfect 10
      Although it is not really possible to be the perfect parent, but you are definitely close. You are a Zen master who is calm, thoughtful, and emotionally attuned – you’re all about mindful parenting and balance.
    • Mostly B’s: The Hitler
      You love your rules and not just your spouse, even the kids aren’t allowed to break any. Structure, consistency, and discipline are your parenting cornerstones. You run a tight ship!
    • Mostly C’s: The Chaos Controller
      Putting out the fire is an art and you are an expert. Life is wild, and you’re riding the wave! You may not have a plan, but you’re doing your best.
    • Mostly D’s: The Coolest Buddy
      Everybody preaches about being friends with the child, you’ve done it! You’re fun, spontaneous, and always in your kid’s corner – sometimes a little too much maybe!

    Communication & Relationships – Exploring the Connect

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    Today’s world, advancing at such speed, views communication as a skill—whether it’s engaging with clients in a company or impressing someone. However, when it comes to communicating in any kind of relationship, be it with parents, a partner, or anyone else, society sometimes falls short and forgets that it’s not merely a skill; it’s a necessity. How, you ask? Let’s see it through.

    While working, we can easily praise someone to get the best out of them by saying things like, “Keep it up” or “That’s a great idea.” But when it comes to using such praise in more personal relationships, we often hesitate.

    For instance, imagine a child creating a beautiful drawing of their parents at school. When they excitedly show it to their parents, the response is a dry, indifferent “That’s okay” or simply “Good.” Even if parents do offer praise, it’s often followed by a comment like, “But also focus on your studies.”

    This is where the bridge between parents and children begins to build up—a communication gap. The child, eager to satisfy the parents, may choose not to share their true passions and dreams. Meanwhile, the parents might assume everything is fine, unaware that their child is quietly bearing a burden they could never imagine.

    The unsaid words!

    Even in relationships between partners, communication plays a crucial role. There are times when one might wish for the other to understand everything without needing to say it from the very beginning. However, I find this expectation to be quite unrealistic. To make someone understand, you must express yourself.

    Even if your partner understands you without you saying a word, it’s often because they have observed you closely from the start. You may have shared things early on that no longer require constant reminders.

    What may seem like a small matter often grows into something much bigger, eventually leading to conflicts that can turn the relationship toxic or, in the worst cases, even bring it to an end.

    The right approach…communicating emotions!

    Having a rich vocabulary and the perfect choice of words in any language doesn’t define communication. True communication lies in how one addresses the matter—how genuinely they express their thoughts and emotions. No relationship sails smoothly forever; there are always waves to be faced somewhere along the ocean’s vastness. But to navigate through those storms, communication is the compass that guides us back to calm waters.

    Communication is a necessity, not a skill. It’s the lifeline that holds relationships together, not through polished words but through honest conversations. And until we start embracing that truth, all the eloquence in the world will be nothing but empty noise.

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    Personality Development: Discovering Your Best Self

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    Personality development is all about growing and improving yourself for an even happier and successful life. It’s how we connect with others, tackle challenges, and see the world around us. When you work on developing your personality, you not only boost your self-confidence but also create a more fulfilling life experience.

    Getting to Know Personality Development

    So, what is personality? It’s a mix of traits you’re born with and the habits you build over time. While our genetics play a part, our life experiences, the people we meet, and the choices we make shape who we become. Personality development is all about polishing these elements to help you become a well-rounded person.

    Key Ingredients of Personality Development                  

    A strong personality isn’t just about being the life of the party; it includes several important qualities that help us grow.

    • Self-Awareness: Knowing yourself is the first step! By understanding your strengths, weaknesses, and feelings, you can make those conscious choices to improve and grow.
    • Confidence and Self-Esteem: Being confident makes you more respected and trustworthy. Building confidence comes from accepting yourself, feeling capable, and maintaining a positive attitude.
    • Effective Communication: Being able to express yourself and actively listen is key to forming great relationships. Good communication isn’t just about words; it’s also about body language and the tone you use.
    • Emotional Intelligence: It’s all about managing your feelings and understanding others. Empathy, patience, and resilience can enhance your interactions with people.
    • Adaptability and Open-Mindedness: A flexible personality welcomes change and is eager for new experiences. Being adaptable helps you grow in both personal and work settings.
    • Self-Discipline and Responsibility: Owning your actions and having a disciplined routine can lead to success. Being responsible earns you trust and respect from others.

    Steps to Boost Your Personality

    Improving your personality requires some consistent effort and a bit of self-reflection. Here are some friendly tips to help you on your journey:

    Begin by cultivating a positive mind set. A cheerful perspective brings in opportunities and helps you grow. Focus on finding solutions instead of getting bogged down by problems. Alongside it is imperative to work on your Communication Skills. Get involved in conversations, practice public speaking, and work on your body language to become a more effective communicator. The stated can be enabled by expanding your knowledge base. Never stop learning! Reading, taking courses, or trying new experiences not only boosts your confidence but also keeps you adaptable. The stated can be seamlessly managed with the help of Conversation Club.  The experienced trainers at Conversation Club help you work on your communication skills and knowledge base thereby enabling overall personality development.

    Additionally, embrace empathy and work on your social Skills. Try to see things from others’ perspectives. Engaging in active listening and showing kindness enhances your social interactions. Working on physical and mental well-being is also imperative. Healthy lifestyle, regular exercise, and being mindful contribute to an energetic and balanced personality. As the next step set goals and try to stay motivated. Create personal and professional goals to give yourself direction. Staying motivated and taking small, consistent steps will help you reach your dreams. And of course, quite importantly embrace feedback and persistently target self-improvement. Constructive criticism is a treasure trove of insights. Being open to feedback and focusing on the areas where you can improve leads to growth.

    Remember, little steps taken consistently can lead to big changes. Enjoy the journey of personality development with Conversation Club … it’s truly rewarding!

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    Understanding the vital role of Body Language in everyday Communication

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    Do you know that as per studies, verbal communication i.e. your words only have about 7% influence in shaping the communication, the remaining 93% is governed by your facial expressions, head nods, eyeball movements etc. Be it evading contact or fidgety leg movement, the way you physically conduct yourself determines the impact of your message.

    While a handful are consciously aware of the stated fact, most of us tend to overlook the pertinence of body language these days. Simply put body language is a non-verbal form of communication expressed through facial expressions, gestures, eye contact, head movements, handshakes, smiles and more. In other words, it plays a vital role in personality development i.e. how we convey emotions, build connections and influence others. As they say, your body speaks even when your lips don’t move. When something is clearly so critical, it is only but logical that we delve into pertinent aspects of non-verbal communication.

    Smile: A Natural Anti-Aging Elixir

    Have you ever come across this beautiful quote by Dalai Lama?
    “A simple smile. That’s the start of opening your heart and being compassionate to others.”

    Isn’t that so true? A smile has this amazing ability to change someone’s mood in an instant. It’s like a little spark that can light up not just your face but also the hearts of those around you, no matter how you look, a genuine smile makes you look Gorgeous!!!
    I still remember the day I went for my first scan after years of trying to conceive. My heart was pounding with hope, but in a cruel twist of fate, my joy was shattered – it was an Ectopic pregnancy. The news hit me like a storm, leaving me in a state of shock and panic. Tears welled up in my eyes, and fear gripped my heart as the doctor declared my surgery an emergency.

    Amidst the chaos, my doctor walked in with a warm-reassuring smile and said “We will surely try our best to help you take a baby Home”. Her smile wasn’t just an expression – it was a life line, soothing my mind and giving me the strength to face what lay ahead.

    The Power of a Nod

    A nod is a powerful yet often misunderstood element of body language. It can speak volumes without uttering a word, but it’s meaning shifts across cultures. In my experience as an expat, people in Kerela nod a lot – almost as if their heads are dancing to an unspoken rhythm of agreement. On the other hand, in many Middle Eastern countries, nodding is used sparingly. They believe excessive nodding dilutes the message, adding too much water to a strong cup of tea. For them a well-placed nod is like a punctuation mark, used just enough to emphasize but not so much that it blurs the intent. Funny, isn’t it?

    I remember the school canteen man who had a unique way of nodding. Every time we placed an order, he would bob his head in a way that left us utterly confused – was that a Yes or a No, or just a random movement? We would stand there, awkwardly waiting for confirmation, only to see our order magically appear a few minutes later. It was like an unspoken language we never fully cracked.
    Gestures can be misinterpreted. What seems like a simple nod in one culture can leave people second-guessing in another. Whether it’s a subtle tilt or an enthusiastic bow, the meaning of a nod isn’t always universal. Sometimes, it’s a handshake of the head; other times it’s just a mystery.  

    Eyes Speak Louder

    Jonathan Bryan’s book “Eye Can Write” is a testament to the incredible power of the eyes. Despite being unable to move or speak due to a severe disability, he expressed his thoughts emotions and dreams solely through eye movements. It’s fascinating how much we communicate without words- sometimes a single gaze can say more than a thousand sentences.

    Let’s think about it: when a stranger stares at you for too long, it sends a shiver down your spine, triggering a mix of fear and confusion. On the other hand, a teacher in a classroom relies on eye contact to gauge attentiveness. If even one student keeps looking away, it can be frustrating, almost like talking to a wall. Similarly, a receptionist handling patient’s queries must maintain proper eye contact- too little might seem indifferent, too much could make you perplexed.

    The eyes don’t just see, they speak. A fleeting glance can express nervousness, a lingering gaze can build trust and a sharp stare can intimidate. In every interaction, from personal conversations to professional encounters, eye contact plays a crucial role in shaping perception. Jonathan Bryan’s story proves that even without speech or movement, one can still connect deeply with the world – through the language of the eyes.

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